Nikki and John, two married somethings, open up in real time about the decision to non-monogamy, polyamory and what it means to be in an open marriage. Lust is how you open the door to a relationship; love is the prize. Lust is a potent enticer and an invitation for sex, and it has more to do with. "The relationship between a man and the place is an open relationship. When you kill the place, and it becomes difficult for the means of expression to.